Guidelines

Want to know how this works, how to message an elder, and some tips on what to write? Read this page!

INSTRUCTIONS


There are three easy steps to becoming a

pen-pal.
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1. Browse the rosters of each nursing

home linked below.

Find someone who you might connect with.


2. Send them a message or a physical

letter!

‍To learn about how to chat with your

pen-pal, check out the Chat page.
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3. Wait for a response.

Once they message back, you are

officially matched! Keep talking!


Have fun!

Roster

Find someone you might connect with!

Please note that you must be logged in to access the roster.

Please visit the Chat page for further chatting and account details.

Conversation Topics and Tips

Write About Your Interests
What do you like to do in your free time? Which subjects do you love to learn about? Maybe write about a similar interest between you and your pen-pal or why you wanted to match with that person.
Write About Your Closest Relationships
Do you have a best friend? What do you like to talk about with that person? Are you close with your siblings and or parents? Do you have a pet? How do you spend time with them?
Don't write too much
It can be very easy to start rambling, but write like you're having a conversation with your pen-pal. You don't have to tell them everything immediately. Take the time to learn more about your friend and their interests.
Don't write too little
The only way you can form a meaningful connection with your pal is if you are willing to put effort.
Schedule in-person or virtual meetings
It is optional to do so and it's only possible if both you and your pal consent, but we recommend it. It's much easier to make more personal and meaningful relationships if you can talk face-to-face.